Over the last few weeks I've had a lot to say but wasn't sure just how to word it. Here's the abbreviated version:
(1) Don't allow your emotions to rule you or your actions. If someone hurts your feelings (especially over text or chat), don't assume that they meant to hurt you. The bad thing about these "techy" ways of communicating is that our true tone and intent take a back seat to the reader's interpretation. When there is reasonable doubt, give them the benefit of it. Then talk to them (preferably on the phone or in person) about the situation if necessary. It's silly to allow someone's words or actions to have so much control over you that they virtually decide what kind of day you will have.
(2) Before you condemn someone else's actions or choices, take a good, hard, honest look at your own.
(3) Smiles and frowns are both contagious. Whether in the literal sense or in attitude, you get back what you send out.
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(4) Don't stick your nose in where it's not wanted - it may get swatted with a newspaper.
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